Women [by profelipe]
The night is over before the person leaving home.
There are problems – drinking, drugs, flirting, among others. They are just tools to justify something that was already drawn by the person. Sadness, frustration and rejection are part of this process (joy and satisfaction too). It depends on the state of mind of each one.
There are people who drink or commit other excesses to forget everyday problems or something more serious, like a childhood trauma. It does not work. They will be worse in the late evening. Some people speak in “moral hangover”, but it can be more complicated. In case of any trauma, people will face during sleep everything they wanted to forget (in terrible nightmares that seem increasingly real).
In fact, attempting to escape the unconscious does not work. The pain produced is so intense that it leads to some people in choosing something previously unthinkable (as suicide).
All this can become a cycle of self-destruction. The photos produced for social networking (with beautiful people and smiles) do not work anymore. Staying home – watching TV and eating – can be worse.
What about the self-esteem?
The problem is not only about physical appearance. Emotion can not be controlled and the fails – hidden in the unconscious – insist on returning to annoy, especially in moments of weakness. There is no solution. Some people would say that the time would be the best answer. Maybe. But neither it solve the malaise of the human condition.
The night is over before the person leaving home.
There are problems – drinking, drugs, flirting, among others. They are just tools to justify something that was already drawn by the person. Sadness, frustration and rejection are part of this process (joy and satisfaction too). It depends on the state of mind of each one.
There are people who drink or commit other excesses to forget everyday problems or something more serious, like a childhood trauma. It does not work. They will be worse in the late evening. Some people speak in “moral hangover”, but it can be more complicated. In case of any trauma, people will face during sleep everything they wanted to forget (in terrible nightmares that seem increasingly real).
In fact, attempting to escape the unconscious does not work. The pain produced is so intense that it leads to some people in choosing something previously unthinkable (as suicide).
All this can become a cycle of self-destruction. The photos produced for social networking (with beautiful people and smiles) do not work anymore. Staying home – watching TV and eating – can be worse.
What about the self-esteem?
The problem is not only about physical appearance. Emotion can not be controlled and the fails – hidden in the unconscious – insist on returning to annoy, especially in moments of weakness. There is no solution. Some people would say that the time would be the best answer. Maybe. But neither it solve the malaise of the human condition.